A battered woman, Tina Michelle Obiora, who left her husband because of his violence has shared her story on Facebook.
She admits the man showed signs of being a woman beater before she married him, but blinded by love, she ignored the signs and went ahead to marry him.
Read the full story below:
So I went to see my daughter yesterday in her fathers house and
he beat me black and blue because my daughter wanted to follow
me home and I insisted on taking her home. (I had to drop her with
her father a week ago because she had missed him and was crying
to be with him)
My clothes were torn (thank God i wore a singlet), I lost one of my
chains, earrings and wristwatch, and of course my body feels like
someone the whole Nigerian army pounded on.
My daughter (3years old) was turn between 2 pple she loves, she
was confused because she don’t know who to support or what to
feel, so she just started crying “Mummy, Daddy” on a normal day
if a friend drags stuff with me or my siblings she would say “Leave
my mummy alone” and start fighting you. My heart broke for her
that night but I couldn’t do anything. I hope she forgives me and
her father for bringing her into our mess.
Worst of all after that he called the police on me that I came to his
house to fight him, and they should lock me and jail me… etc, of
course they came with their patrol team.
He wanted them to lock me in the cell that night and probably take
me to jail, that I am a treat to his life.
Nnamdi Chris has always been sad that I stood back in life after
we seperated and took carr of our daughter with none to little
contribution from him, he has always wanted me to crawl on my
feet and beg for suckor from him.
Buh in all, that didn’t happen because the police didn’t buy his
story and they thought it was a different matter when he called,
they didn’t know it was a case of a child.
I’m home buh I am heart broken, for the mistakes I made by
chosen a woman beater as a husband who also feels he can beat
me anytime he likes.
I wish Nigerian government, the police, would sit up and stop this
mess, irrespective of whomever bribes them.
I wish I could turn back the hands of time, I wouldn’t have made
the mistake of allowing a failure father my child because I saw this
signs and overlooked them (Smokes indian hemp, clubs, drinks, party hard and womanizes alot)
Nnamdi Chris Nwachukwu (Facebook name: Exola Incs), thank
you for making my life miserable at an early age of 21 when I
married you…
That girl you are dragging with me, I almost lost her and my life
after you finished beating me a week to when I delivered her
through CS after been in labor for 12 hours. Even while i was
pregnant, you called me names and claimed she wasn’t your child,
buh unfortunately for you she looked like your mum when I
delivered her.
Thank you so much… I hope you don’t feed my daughter with lies
about me when she grows up.
Its obvious that you haven’t changed even after I decided to part
ways with you 2years ago after you finished beating designing my
body with a pen knife.
It took me 3 years to summon courage to write this. I’m tired of
staying silent and dying in pain.
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